The one thing DHS did tell us

If you have any unfinished business the injured child will draw it out.  You know what that's okay.  It needed to be.  I'm not sure I have ever been this relaxed and happy in my life.  I am me.  And you know what she is amazing. I hope when and if my children decide it is safe enough to let go of hurts.  I can stand by without judgement as it unfolds.  As many did for me.  Just checking to ensure it is ok.