Unsolicited Advice
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Lately it seems that I must have a flashing neon sign strapped to my chest
because people just feel the need to come up and give me advice... without
me as...
7 years ago
Words to live by: "I'll love you forever. I'll like you for always As long as I'm living in my heart you'll be
I showed Rick my facebook page. He watched the first video and said very quietly"You do get it Mom. If you change the name and pictures, it's me." Made it to the page on what causes RAD, he stated the balloons that fit and then he shut down. I absolutely could have been sitting next to a rock. There was nothing. Once again I see the hope and the limitations of a child. It renews me and breaks my heart at the same time. Just because there are times that behaviors have overwhelmed, and yes even I go into my protective zone when the hurt is to much. Never doubt the love I feel for each of my children. The determination I feel to help them heal. I do not believe the biological parents ever intended to hurt my child. That is why even when I was so hurt in January, I never stated their last name. Even with all that has happened never once have I regretted my decision to adopt. These children are my world. They complete Dan & I. We are a family. Perhaps after watching these videos some of you may have a better understanding as to why we have made the choices to protect our children as we have.
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